Men's scams on dating sites
Needless to say, you won't ever see this money or her again.We have seen our share of fake passports/visas/tickets, so if "she" or whoever it is sends you a copy of a document you think might be fake - send it to us. Keep in mind that sometimes the scammer is not actual girl, but the agency that "represents" her.You have just discovered someone that seems so right for you. You are in love, and ready to put the whole world to your foreign darling's feet. And you do want to know about her inner feelings for you, right? The girls' English might be poor, but it does not prevent them from being very convincing in their emails. They might simply imply it by complaining about how tough they have it. By complying with them you are setting yourself up for a big fall. There is no need to be distrustful of all foreign women seeking their love over the Internet.
At some point she tells you you are the love of her life, and she is dying to meet you in person. So, could you please send her some cash to help her pay for the tickets/visa/passport? Because he feels like he has known this woman forever when in fact he has not.
You seek beauty, love, understanding, and appreciation. You might or might not be taken aback by that request. Just as everywhere else this mysterious world of foreign brides is full of its own dangers. She might tell you she needs money to pay an interpreter to translate her letters to you. She will NEVER accept any money from you until you have actually met, and your relationship has turned into something real. A scammer will of course claim she does not care about money, but we all know actions speak louder than words.
And then all of a sudden you find it all (or so you feel). In any case, you think to yourself "anything for that wondrous woman" and take out your wallet. Man becomes awfully vulnerable when it comes to love. Because her English is not enough to let her express her feelings. No honest, respectable woman will EVER ask you for money in such situation. No matter how reasonable they might seem to you, any money requests are absurd and inappropriate. You by no means are encouraged to become cynical, paranoid, or scared.
As a result of this there is no waiting period like other sites have, you can begin using the site right away.
We also have an active discussion forum, which other South African dating sites don't offer.
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